February 2013 Love MagicLaw of AttractionYou possess within you the magic to attract love. But your quest should not begin with a love spell, potion or talisman. It should begin with you. You are the magician. The magic you send out into the world builds from your core, your essence. It is boosted or tainted by who you are at this moment. Which is why any search for love should begin within. Like attracts like. What five words best describe you? Write them down. What five words describe the qualities you most desire in a love match? Add these to your page. Are the two lists similar? Are they compatible? Would someone with the qualities noted on the second list be attracted to someone with qualities from the first list? How to Get There From HereBegin by cleansing and purifying. Take inventory. What do you like best about yourself? What negative characteristics do you wish you could release? Begin your Love Magic by releasing any qualities that do not serve your highest good. First, reflect upon the origins of these attributes. Then perform a healing or forgiveness ritual around the situation or person that contributed to them. Forgiveness need not absolve someone of wrongdoing. Forgiveness can be an acknowledgment of what happened and your choice to no longer be hindered by it. Forgiveness and releasing rituals empower, not diminish you. Forgive yourself for any mistakes you made. I release you, (Say the person’s name). To break the energetic tie, place your hands in prayer position with your thumbs near your heart. When you say, “They are separate,” pull your hands apart and envision the energetic connection being severed. Where Thoughts Go, Energy FlowsBe sure the message you send out to the universe (and any potential mates) is positive. Make each day a mindful, moving, meditation. For example, acts of kindness, generosity, healthy living, and joy bring you energetically within the realm of someone who is kind, generous, fit, and joyous. If your singular goal is to attract someone who is rich, then concentrate on a prosperity spell, not a love spell. The act of creating your own fortune may have the added benefit of attracting someone wealthy into your life. Or it may not. Either way, you will be master/mistress of your own fortune. Rules for Attracting LoveNever mention someone by name when you perform a love spell or ritual. Serious karmic repercussions occur when you try to bind someone to you. Keep an open mind and an open heart. Trust the Universe to deliver the best love match for you. Universe, I ask of thee, Rituals for Attracting LoveOnce you have performed your cleansing and purifying rituals (email me at authorariellamoon@gmail.com if you need help devising a ritual for a specific situation), you may move forward with rituals for attracting love. Start with self-love, if that is an issue for you. Friday is ruled by the planet Venus, so when possible, perform your rituals on a Friday. Do not expect instantaneous results. Allow the Universe time to align what needs to be aligned so the right person comes to you when you are both most ready to form a love connection. Have faith. Magic is most powerful when the energy builds. This sequence draws love magic up through the ground and swirls it up through your chakras to your heart. 1. Earth Love Magic: Plant or place on your personal altar one of these flowers associated with Venus, the Roman Goddess of Love: violets, tulips, daffodils, or pink geraniums. As you tend to the plant, imagine love growing and drawing nearer. 2. Root Chakra Love Magic: Do yoga, drum, and/or dance. All help heal the root chakra and move energy and magic. Place a garnet or other red stone on your altar. 3. Sacral Chakra Love Magic: Do yoga, swim, dance, or walk. Place a Carnelian or orange jasper on your altar. Envision yourself creating healthy boundaries. 4. Solar Plexus Love Magic: Imagine a golden sun blossoming directly below your sternum. This sun represents your self-esteem. Envision it growing larger and brighter. Practice Qi gong, hike, or participate in sports. See your self-worth grow and the magic moving up into your heart. 5. Heart Chakra Love Magic: Envision pink light surrounding your heart. Breathe in roses or dab yourself with rose essential oil. Place rose quartz on your altar or around your home. Draw, paint, sculpt, or clip from magazines depictions of happy couples. Become what you wish to attract. Hold the vision of you in a happy, loving relationship. Daily express gratitude to Spirit/God/Goddess/Universe for your many blessings. For more love magic, please click here for link to February 2012 Monthly Muse. |